Stubbornness can be both a good and bad thing. When used well, I consider it to be a factor of determination and belief, and therefore it has its place in every personality. When used poorly, its comes along with an inability to own up to mistakes and a refusal to believe that you can’t do everything alone. Every man is an island in your world. Continuing on with traits that can exhibit themselves in both positive and negative ways, you are also trustworthy and reliable. On the surface there is nothing negative about either one of these, how could there be? There isn’t, until someone decides to use these admirable personality traits against you. The majority of people, when presented with the opportunity to do so, will push and push to see how far they can go until you break. Its an unfortunate part of human nature, one we can fight against with boundaries. It is not selfish to value yourself and your mental health, do not let anyone, ever, manipulate you into believing otherwise. This is especially true for women. If you get called crazy, or a bitch, or any other manner of things, its because that person is trying to shame and humiliate you back into complacency. Don’t let them. You matter as much as you say you do, not any one else.
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