The Four of Wands is a card of completion. Its the culmination of all Fire planets-the Sun and your desire to be seen, Mars and your drive to move forward, and Jupiter which brings you not so much luck as expansion-working together. You've accomplished your goals and can celebrate your success with the people who loved and supported you the whole way.
When Four of Wands is reversed, support and happiness for your accomplishments are lacking. Maybe there is an upheaval or a general lack of harmony and balance in your home life right now. It would be easy to let a lack of enthusiasm for what you've achieved to diminish its importance in your mind, but don't let that happen. This is not something that can be taken away from you. I won't say that someone not caring enough to feel proud of you doesn't matter because it does. We care, of course, we want other people to care. It's just human nature. But, you shouldn't take that to mean that you can't be proud of yourself. Be proud of who you are, what you've done, and what you will do in the future.
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Owner of the second picture is unknown, but it definitely doesn't belong to me.